Categorized by significant frugality, saving, and investments, FIRE followers generally aim to save and invest about 70 percent of their income, then live off of small withdrawals from the portfolios for the decades to come. And while the outcome of FIREing may sound appealing, the reality of what it takes to get there can be daunting. “To be clear, the FIRE journey is long,” Amon and Christina, the faces behind Our Rich Journey, explain. “It’s natural for people who are pursuing FIRE to feel less inspired or motivated (or even defeated) at different times during the journey.” Amon and Christina began their FIRE journey in 2011 and retired in 2019 with $2.5 million saved. They quit their jobs, moved to Portugal, and now spend their days enjoying time together and with their two daughters. When it comes to retirement, it seems that the shorter it takes to get there, the longer it feels. And at the start, the end can feel out of reach. Below, folks who have retired early share the tips they wished they’d known at the start of their journey to financial independence. “Before we started our financial independence journey, I think we placed too much importance on material things,” they explain. “We understood that a new car would cost us ‘X’ amount of dollars. But, we didn’t convert how many additional hours of work those new cars cost.” Once they began working towards early retirement, they were able to think much more intentionally about their purchases, accounting for both the monetary and time cost. These deliberate money practices also allowed them to invest more; they both say they wished education around this topic had been more accessible earlier on. “We didn’t learn about investing in high school or in college or from anyone in our family. So, everything we learned, we had to learn on our own,” they say. They recommend The Bogleheads’ Guide to Investing and The Bogleheads’ Guide to the Three Fund Portfolio as great starting points for new investors looking to educate themselves further. “When it comes to compound interest, the stock market, gains, losses, you have a lot of time to recover from mistakes if you make them, and you have a lot of time to make better choices,” Roshida Dowe, who retired at 39, explains. “There were times when I was more stressed about it than I needed to be.” She says this because she believes early retirement is within the grasps of so many more people. “This is a possibility,” she explains. While doing the math and working out a plan for your retirement is important, it’s never too late to get started or back on track and make early retirement your reality. “We tend to look at people who are doing things we’re not doing as special,” she says, “Chances are they’re not different or special; they just did things differently and it’s never too late for you to start doing anything different.” The women retired in 2019 at the ages of 46 and 38, respectively, and have been traveling full-time ever since. “For someone who had never [tracked spending] prior, it was a life-changer,” Stephanie says. “It really helps you make informed choices about how you’re spending your money,” Gillian follows up. They use the You Need a Budget App, but note that it can be done just as easily with a pen and a piece of paper. Tracking your spending ensures that you have money to save and invest, and goes to show that the small choices we make every day do have long-term impacts. “What we learned when we got down to hitting the road is that we couldn’t really sell anything, and if we sold it, it was at about 5 percent of the purchase price,” says Amy. It was a lesson they couldn’t learn until they were in the middle of it. They’d furnished a large home over the years, even before they planned to retire, and owned a lot of things. “It was painful to get rid of it because of the sunk cost,” Amy explains. “We estimated that it was about $200,000 just wasted.” Whether you anticipate traveling or not, it’s never too early to think about the long-term plan for anything you buy before your retirement. Without any guarantee to get that money back, it doesn’t hurt to start living a more minimalist lifestyle sooner rather than later. There are some practical things they maybe would’ve done differently, such as putting more money into the stock market over real estate. “We would have done better in financial markets without having to do plumbing, cutting the grass, painting the bedrooms, all the things the house takes,” Billy says. However, one of the biggest lessons from their financial independence was understanding the emotional side of the coin. “Friends and family are not necessarily going to support you on this,” Akaisha explained, noting they’d lost some friends because of their decision. While neither would say the social-emotional toll is a reason not to retire early, it’s definitely a consideration, making it all the more important for current FIRE hopefuls to find people who will uplift and support their journey. No matter what, Billy and Akaisha urge future retirees to “find out what your dream is and then hang on to it.”
